Think About your personality.....!!!!

Personal beliefs, expectations, desires, values, and behaviors

 that derive from the interaction between culture and the individual. Personality is the behaviors and techniques for solving problems that are used by an individual. Personality is to the individual as culture is to the group.

Every man who wants to develop his personality also wants to become popular. Man’s life is a burden without popularity. If we leave aside certain action, there is not much difference between a man and an animal. Everybody can be popular if he/you takes care of these few  enlisted personality development tips. Thesepersonality development tips are very simple to read but they are very effective and powerful- try in your day to day life..,

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                

1- If you want to progress in life than honestly analyze the traits of your character.

2-Do not laugh at people when they are in difficulty or trouble other wise you will loose your personality in a moment.

3-This is a great way to develop your personality by listening everyone politely, even if their ideas are baseless or not of your interest.

4-During conversation do not keep talking yourself too much.

5-When ever somebody brings any gift for you, don’t forget to praise it. It does not matter even if you were expecting something else.

6-Make other feel that you love them.

7-Keep your moral high in case of defeat and be more polite on being victorious.

     8- Solve your problems in a creative way. Try your best not to let these spoil your relations with your friends.

9-Enlist your bad habits and try to get rid of them.

10-We should not uplift our standard of living but also help others to do so. Try to remove the feeling of inferiority in others by loving them and by keeping good behavior towards them.  

11-Be careful of what your say about others because others will say the same thing about us at different times and at different places and in this way form a public opinion about us.

12-Some people often have a favorite sentence which they repeat frequently. We should try and get rid and get rid of such a habit.

13-Independence increases our good qualities and personality and slavery bad qualities.

14-Independent thinking and freedom to work is the only source of progress and welfare.

15-Love is the greatest magic in this world. You can do every thing with help of love. Develop this art to improve your personality.

16-Positive attitude is of great importance in our personality. No body like people who have narrowed out look. In life only that person is considered well behaved who has positive and healthy bend of mind.

17-The real beauty of man lies not in his physical appearance but in his work and good qualities. That is why it is important that we improve mental outlook to develop our personality.

18-Every individual should develop the ability to adjust with others, because basically man is a social animal, so one can not survive by living alone.

19-Some people keep repeating a particular statement and it becomes a part of their nature. At the most you may repeat a statement twice but it you do it more than that it leaves a bad impact.

20-Ask some Questions from yourself:-

1. Do you behave with your family members in the same manner as you behave with your master or your boss?
2. Would you like to joke even in such a situation when you that it would hurt the sentiments of other.
3. Do you take care of this that no one is hurt by you?
4. Do you take care of the feelings of those who are younger than you?

                        

How to Propose a Girl.....!!!!

How to Propose to a Girl The million dollar question.....!! Proposing a girl is not an easy task...For all the rocking Guys..!!


How to propose a girl. As hard as it is to understand a woman's heart and mind, so it is hard to prepare for one of the beautiful moments of your life: asking your lover to accept your love.


What is actually important is the way you plan it up..!!

Flirting, being friends or very good friends and going out on a special date with a girl; all are very different situations from proposing a girl.
 Men who are going to propose a girl should do this with utmost care. It hurts very much to get denial after proposing a girl. When it comes to proposing a girl, men need to take several factors in to account. Here is a short guide to help you know the best way to propose a girl.

Duration of your relationship:-


If you are friends with a girl for just 1 or 2 weeks, do not propose her. Give time to your relationship so that it can grow. When a man, who knows a girl for a very short period of time; proposes her; the girl gets to know that the person is just fooling around. However, if you know a girl very well for many months then proposing seems acceptable.

The quality of your relationship:-


If you know a girl for a year but have spent only a few lonely moments with her then you should not propose her. Before proposing a girl think yourself that how it will appear to propose a girl whom you just don’t know very well. On the other hand, if you share a very enjoyable relationship with a girl then it will not appear abnormal to propose on your part.  You need to understand that there should be strong reasons for your proposal. Only then the girl would trust you. It is very difficult for a girl to understand that a man who does not know her well really has honest feeling for her. 


Wait for right time:-


Choose a day when you are on a date with your girl. Observe the mood of the girl whom you are going to propose. If the girl is in a bad mood then don’t propose her. You will suffer without any reason just because of wrong timing. Also, keep on giving hints about your proposal before really proposing a girl. This helps in creating a good platform before you really propose her. 


The style for proposing a girl:-

This is the most important part of proposing a girl. Men should understand that there is no rigid style of proposing a girl. Every girl wishes to get proposed in a unique manner. Keep this in mind and propose her in your own unique style. Be creative and avoid copying someone else. Propose her in such manner that she feels like a princess or the most beautiful woman in the whole world. Assure her that you will always take care of her and do anything for her happiness. Avoid proposing in a direct manner. It sounds boring and Indian girls would not like it. If they ask for some time to give response then give it to her(Also, you don’t have another option). Remember that patience always pays. 

So, you are thinking about that girl from couple of months but unable to speak a single word. This often happens with almost every guy when he really falls in love with someone. If you are sailing in the same boat then do not worry. Just have a smile on your face and apply the given below steps.

 Roses, ring and chocolates are the essentials for proposing a girl.

here are no institutions or coaching classes for proposing a girl. You need to socialize a lot and enhance your communication level. This is the best way to express your love to a girl.

 It would be advisable to be a good listener. You must listen to the other person attentively. This feature of yours would be an added advantage for you while proposing a girl.

You must be there at times of her need. Girls are always considered weak as compare to guys. Thus, you must offer her physical protection. But, apart from physical protection, another thing must be considered. It is the emotional dependence. Girls always have a liking for emotionally supportive guys.

In order to propose a girl, you must be expressive. Expression of feelings is a little tough task. But, it plays key role in getting you the girl of your dreams.

 Girls whole-heartedly welcome sweet surprises. So, give surprises to your sweet heart like chocolates, flowers, soft toys, hat etc. There is no need to buy expensive gifts. Affordable gifts will also serve the purpose.

Invite your dream girl for a lunch and cook her favorite dish. This is the best way to propose a girl. This is an ideal way to reflect your love and affection.

 Before proposing the girl, try to understand her body language. If she is sitting crossed leg and her feet pointing towards you then she is simply interested in you.

 Girls always have a liking for humorous guys. Humor is the ultimate way from getting rid of tension. This also relaxes one's mood.

Think of your role model......!!!

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As a child, each one of us has looked up to someone; that one person who we admired and always wanted to be like; the person who we considered to be our role model. It could be our parents, Einstein (he he) or anyone who inspires and motivates us. Gradually as we grow, we try and behave in a similar fashion. But is this really the way it should be? Agreed each one of us must have someone to look up to and learn from, but soon it leads to a closed state of mind.

Let’s say I have a certain ABC as my role model. Not only am I motivated and inspired by him, but at each stage in my life I question myself “what would ABC do if he were in my shoes right now”. This seems to work well for us most of the times, but not always. It is not necessary that every decision ABC takes is precisely how I should act too. Nor do I need to limit my thoughts, deeds, conduct, activities and actions to those of ABC. You see there are always two sides to a coin and by having a paradigm, I confine my behavior to his. So it always helps to instill the good from each person we admire, but not loose our individual thinking. ABC may be very good at what he does but situations change, the variables involved change and the world changes. Each one must evolve as an individual by grasping the merits from those who inspire us. It is only once we learn to absorb the positives from the greats that we realize as to how much there is to learn and know. How much could ABC have possibly explored and known? Let me learn from his experiences and of countless others and enlarge my own thinking to realize a new possibility.

Best Movements in the life..........!!!!!!

1:-Giving the 1st salary to your parents.

2:- Thinking your love with tears. 

3:-Looking old photos & smiling.

4:-A sweet & emotional chat with friends

5:-Holding hands with your loved ones for a walk. 

6:-Getting a hug from one who cares you. 

7:-1st kiss to your child when he /she is born. 

8:-The moments when your eyes are filled with tears after a big laugh.

जब दोस्त बनकर काम हो सकता है तो दुश्मनी क्यों??

कहते हैं कि दोस्ती दुनिया का सबसे अच्छा रिलेशन होता है..!! होगा भी क्यों नहीं दो हस्तियों से मिलकर जो बनती है दोस्ती !!! 

Ha frnds m bat kr raha hu dosti ki ,dosti sabse bada relation hoti h agar dosti krne wale mane to..!!dosti me ek dost apne dost ke liye kuch bhi kr sakta h.jab koi insan dukhi hota h to use sabse pahle apne dost ki hi yad aati h,kyonki wo janta h ki uska dost hi ek aisa insan h is duniya me jo usski problm ko samjh sakta h or use dur bhi kr sakta h.

Ee dost hi apne dost ke andar ki bat ya uski problm ko samjh sakta h,dost hi use sahara deta h or dost hi use dur bhi krta h,koi dost jab dukhi hota h to wo uske gale lag kar ro bhi sakta h kyonki use pta h mere rone se ye mujhe chup krane ka koi na koi bandobast("solution")kar hi dega..chahe uske liye use kuch bhi kyo na krna pade.

Dosti kai rupo me hoti h...!:Dosti ke kai (many)rup(types)me hoti h jaise ki...aap log sab jante h o kon kon se hote h yha ham kewal ek ladka ladki ki dosti ke bare me dekhenge,,,

*ladka -ladki ki dosti...:-ek ladki or ek ladke ke bich me jo sabse acha relation hota h wo mere hisab se h "DOSTI"!usse kya hota h ki breackup ka lafda hi nahi rahta.majje se dono ek dusre ke sath rah sakte h ,ghum sakte h...or ha kisi bhi ladke or ladki ko buri najar se dekh bhi sakte,kyonki dono me se kisi ko problm bhi nhi hogi or ho bhi kyo dono boyfrnd -girlfrnd thode na h.

I think agar ek ladke ko koi sudhar sakta h to wo h only ladki,kyonki ladka chahe kisi ki bat mane ya n mane wo ladki ki bat ko kabhi nhi talega or any situation  me use puri krne ki har sambhaw kosis krega...i think!!

I think ladka -ladki ko h na love ,pyar ,wyar ,in jasie lafdo me padna hi nhi chahiye,kyo yar pahle to ye lafda krte ho phir alag hote ho ladke ko tklf hoti h ladki ko tklf hoti,rona -dhona,khana n khana,padhayi me man n lagna,colg,office se bunk krna,sare din udas rahna,,,,ek dusre ki galtiya btana ,ek dusre ke gifts,letters...etc.ko todna fadna..kyu.....agar ye sab hi krna h to phir aisa relation banate hi kyo ho,,,mujhse agar koi puche to m to yhi kahunga ki"DOSTI IS THE BEST RELATION BETWEEN BOYS AND GIRLS"....NOTHING ELSE,..

DOSTI KE FAYDE;-IS tarah ki dosti ke kai fayde bhi h....jaise..

*Gifts kam dene padte h.....,

*Dating ke chakkar se mukti(free)

*Agar gielfrnd ko kahi bahr khana khilao to bil dena padega har hal me bechare boys ko  hi...dost ko khilao to.ya to aadha bil mang sakte ho ya haq  ya rutbe ke sath ye bol sakte ho ki beti kal teri bari h

*Usuki other  frnds ke sath bhi batchit ya gape lada sakte ho....dost ki dost h yar use kyo problm hogi..

*Jarurat padne par paise bhi udhar mang sakte ho wo bhi bina kisi byaj ke...or dene ki bhi koi jaldi nhi rahti...

*Kisi ke dekhne ka bhi dar nhi rahta,kyonki h to dost hi na...!!

*jab chahe bat kr sakte ho ya phir kese bhi hasi majak kr sakte ho....

*Apne mom dad se jhut bhi nhi bolna padta,kyonki dosti se kisi ko koi problm nhi hoti..

*Kesi bhi bate uske sath wo shair kr sakti h ....chahe kitni bhi andar ki kyo na ho...dost jo h..

To aap upar dikhye faydo se yah to sikh hi gaye ho ki dosti achi h na ki love.jab yar dost banane se itne kam ho sakte h to phir dusman i mean girlfrnd kyo banate ho.

Dosti life time chalti h bina kisi rok tok ke,bina  kisi dought ke,bina kisi tensen ke .

Pyaar me to 90%chanc break up ke hi hote h,ya to shadi n hone ke karan ya phir aapsi man mutaw ke karan ya phir kisi dought ke karan ya kisi tensen ke karan.

Pyar me pocket money girlfrnd ke liye hi kafi nhi hoti apne kam me lene ka to sawal hi nhi aata.agar koi achi job krta h to bechare gharwale presan rahte h girlfrnd ko dene ke chakkar me.

Dosti me pocket money "half save"par rahti h.i mean agale ko bta kr rakho ki dekh yar abhi itne hi h half tera, half mera ,,majje dono ke ho jayenge..

Kabhi girlfrnd ke sath bahar ghum rahe ho or bychanc kisi ladki ki taraf thoda sa dekh liya to phir to samjho aa gayi musibat,kyo dekha ,kya chahte ho,mujhme intrest nhi raha kya,bla bla....

Or agar apni frnd ke sath ho to wo khud bolegi dekh kya mall h ya phir kya item h,ja line mar le kya pta ye to pat hi jaye,,or agar tere se kam na chale to kuch madad m kr dungi.

"Mere kahne ka mtlb itna hi h ki dosti achi h,m ye nhi kahta ki aap pyar mat kro mere kahne ka mtlb h ki pyar hi krna chahte ho to ye jo mene btaye h na wo lafde mat rakho phir dekho apne pyar ka majja kese duguna(double)ho jata h.

agar pyar ko thk tarh se na kr sako to isse acha h aap usi ladki ko apna dost bana lo wo ladki bhi tumhare sath rahegi ,koi lafda bhi nhi rahega  (ek panth do kaj)....

Lakin jindgi ka majja jitna dost ke sath h mere najriye se kisi ke sath bhi nhi h,.try krke dekho,viswas nhi aata to.

Dear friends agar meri bato se kisi ko koi problam ho to maf krna mene only apna najriya btaya h use me lena n lena aapke hath h.

Bilkul is pic.me dikhye tarah..chaho to hath me hath le lo ya....phir....as u wiss.

Dosto ke sath life kesi rahti h in pic.me dekh lo......

So my dear frnds enjoy kro apni dost ke sath na ki grlfrnd ke sath.

I hope aapko mera likha hua op mera suggestion dono eche lage honge.agar kisi ko bure to bhi m use thnq blna chahunga ki aap ne kam se kam time nikalkr use padha to sahi !!!

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