How To Trust Someone Truly...!!

How to trust someone? How to have confidence with a person? Is trusting an easy job or it is just an impossible task in this world full of lies and deceit? Love is always trusting. So if we really love somebody, we need to trust him. But oh! Here is the reality: it’s really hard to trust realistically. Admit it! You cannot just trust a guy or a girl even though you have known him or her for a long time. Can we just utter the words “I trust in you” then magically say to ourselves we are already trusting? Substantially, it’s not how to trust a person.

Trusting is a difficult task
Trusting is one of the products of loving. That is why it is considered a great feat that only few people do in their usual lives. To get it right to the point, to trust someone is to build trust with someone. This means you cannot trust somebody if you haven’t built a trust for him. Trust is something that we give. If we don’t possess trust, we cannot give trust. Hence, to trust a person is to build your trust first.

Trust is based on the truth

Remember that love rejoices in the truth and trusting is based on the truth. Therefore, we cannot trust based on confusions and unreasonable assumptions. Can we trust someone who is lying? Of course not! Can we trust someone whom we don’t know if he’s lying or he’s telling the truth? Still we cannot trust such person. We can only trust a person if we know that the truth is in him. Thus, we need to do extra efforts to find that truth in him. Everyone must bear in mind that seeking for the truth when there is confusion is not an act of distrusting, but rather it is an act of getting enthusiastic with the truth that builds trust.

Everyone wants to trust

Well, the fact is that everyone wants to trust. Who want to distrust and suffers confusion, worries, insecurities and other fruits of darkness? I believe no one does. Trusting is a great thing. It gives us a peaceful mind and a joyful feeling. It also makes us healthy and safe. So why are we always blaming people for not trusting us? I think we should blame them for not building their trust to us. Let’s also put some part of that blame to ourselves for not helping them to build their trust to us – as we don’t always make ourselves trustworthy.

How to create trust

We cannot share or give something we don’t have. So if we want to give trust, we must create it. To create such, we need to not just build it in our mouth, but also build it in all parts of ourselves. This means we also need to generate trust from our mind, heart and even from our hands. To build it in our minds, we should have answers on our questions. Thus, we need to be patient to always talk gently and listen carefully to gain knowledge and understanding. To produce trust in our hearts, we need to have true faith. This means we need to accept the knowledge and understanding that we got from our minds. To put trust in our hands, so that we can give and share that trust, we must act based on what our hearts have accepted.

Final thoughts

Trusting requires patience and hard work because it needs to be built within you. It is developed through acquisition of knowledge and understanding. It is established through acceptance in your heart. Finally, it is manifested through your actions. Trust is not an easy task. It must be founded based on love which always comes with patience, humility, perseverance and trueness. So if you want to trust someone truly, don’t give trust without building it first.

Having someone to trust is one of the greatest tools a person can have in life. The trust between two human beings is one of the most wondrous reactions that two people can easily share. When we trust someone we are basically able to give them as much love as we want to knowing that they will only use this love wisely, and will never use this love against us.

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9 Things You Need to Know About Trust..!!

Steve Jobs: You can't connect the dots looking forward; you can only connect them looking backwards. So you have to trust that the dots will somehow connect in your future. You have to trust in something - your gut, destiny, life, karma, whatever. This approach has never let me down, and it has made all the difference in my life.

                                                                                                                            

1: Trust is a two way street; you get it if you give it. For example: if you want your parents to trust you try trusting them with the truth about what is going on in your life, if you want a relationship built on trust you have to trust in the other person as much as you do in yourself.

                                                                                       

   2:Parents will usually give trust freely until you do something to break it. If this isn't the case in your family and you really can't see why your parents don't trust you just come right out and ask them for an explanation.

                                                                                     

1.  3:Sometimes people don't trust you because of the actions of a person close to you. It is all too common for the behavior of older siblings or friends to cause parents and teachers to doubt you. Accept that this is what is happening, don't fight it, and work at proving that in spite of the actions of others you can be trusted.

                                                                          

4:Sometimes trust has to be earned. If you had trust but did something to break it, it is possible to fix things. But in doing so remember that as the trust breaker you don't get to set the expectations, terms or time frame for earning that trust back

                                                                               

5:In order to fix broken trust both sides have to want the trust back. You can never force a person to trust you.

                                                                                     

       6:Some people have been so badly hurt in the past that they have great difficulty trusting others. If you have a person like this in your life accept that there will always be an element of mistrust in your relationship and be prepared to work overtime to prove that you can be trusted.

                                                                            

  7:Trust is an essential part of ALL successful relationships be they academic, romantic, friendly or familial.

                                                               

       8: Trust is an essential part of sex - if you don't trust your partner 110% don't have sex with them.

                                                                             

9:Trust is a gift - you give it and you receive it. It should never be taken for granted.

                                                                                             

The Best Trust Quotes

• A little girl and her father were crossing a bridge.
  The father was kind of scared so he asked his little daughter: 
  "Sweetheart, please hold my hand so that you don't fall into the river." The little girl said:
  "No, Dad. You hold my hand." 
  "What's the difference?" Asked the puzzled father. 
  
  "There's a big difference," replied the little girl. 
  "If I hold your hand and something happens to me, chances are that I may let your hand go. But if you hold my hand, I know for sure that no matter what happens, you will never let my hand go." 
  
  In any relationship, the essence of trust is not in its bind, but in its bond. So hold the hand of the person whom you love rather than expecting them to hold yours...

• people ask me why it's so hard to trust people,
  and i ask them why is it so hard to keep a promise...

• I've learned that it takes years 
  to build up trust, and it only takes 
  suspicion, not proof, to destroy it....

• It wasn't your fault, it was mine for believing every word you said...

•  Trust is like a mirror..once its BROKEN you can never look at it the same again...
•  Cuts, scars, bruises, lies and fake laughs. Fake smiles, constant cries and a horrifying past. Promises broken, lost loves.. and the “trust me” that didn’t last...

• Love all, trust a few...!!!!!!!!!!!